With that, we are now in our eighth week of pregnancy. I’m arriving in this week thankful that we even made it through the 7th week after a lot of cramping and a bleeding scare. I am back to yoga after 11 days of zero working out which makes me one cranky person. I don’t do the job of “sitting on the couch” very well. Aside from being tired and wanting a few extra snacks, I’ve been feeling pretty normal. Every now and then I have a moment when I think puking up the last thing I ate would be great. That happens more often when I take a whiff of something funky or suddenly hate whatever I am eating with a passion.
While most women would be ready to hit up a baby store or stalking baby Pinterest boards, I am not. Instead the Hubby and I spent the weekend looking at fireplace inserts. Yes, you read that right, fireplace inserts. Who knew there were so many choices?! My 21-year-old self is standing, hands on hips, (okay, one hand on a hip the other holding a Corona), rolling her eyes at the boredom of it all. My 32-year-old self realized the smell of gas in these stores, from the fireplaces, made her baby no happy and therefore made herself want to puke. Ah, the grown-up life.
Where were we, yes fireplace inserts. Long story short, my sister is moving in with us in about 10ish weeks. My sister currently lives 4 hours away from us, 3 hours away our parents and that is the closest she is to family. Where she currently is at is where her ex-husband wanted to live and she just hasn’t felt the need to move, until now. She is burnt out at her teaching job, most of her friends are moving away, she can’t stand her roommate any longer, her car keeps breaking down on the side of the road and my Husband is to far away to fix it. Time for her to move closer to family.
If you had told me 10 years ago, 5 years ago or hell, even 4 years ago that my sister was going to move in with me, I would have laughed you right out of my house. We never grew up with that sister bond. In fact, in the past few years, we just started really noticing the other one existed and started working on building a friendship. It was actually my idea to have her move into the basement and the Husband was completely cool with that. I was even sober when I made that offer. The plan is for her to stay with us for a year, find a teaching job here and then after that we will make a decision on how to move forward. She won’t be paying rent as we figured we would let her hold our baby every now and then while we go on vacations and out to eat. So yea, built-in nanny is where we are going with this. No shame in our game and she is fine with it.
With 13ish weeks till the move we had concrete floors, walls and an organized area of totes for all holidays in the basement. Now with 10ish weeks left till the move we have most of the basement framed in which will soon consist of an over sized storage room, bedroom, full bathroom, utility room, bar, entertainment room, an office nook and a bedroom that will serve as a gym. By moving the office to the basement this does free up a room upstairs for a nursery. (See, something baby related.) Yea, nothing like just a few things to do on the list and I say “we” as in my Husband because my ass sits in a chair and makes a baby while I watch him put studs up. We make one hell of a team. And no, we are not hiring a contractor. The Hubby will be doing it all during nights and weekends with the exception of a guy to come in to blow in the insulation.
It feels like building our house all over again. There are things to pick out and choices to be made. The fireplace insert was the first major decision and I learned I could not build a house and be pregnant. My brain quickly gets frazzled, I think about a nap and walk away while telling the Hubs to just pick something. So this is going well so far.
And no, we still don’t have a fireplace insert picked out. I think I need a nap first.